Public outrage and sorrow dominate the discussion over Girlalala's tragic murder, with dialogues reflecting deep condemnation for victim blaming, calls for justice, and a plea for improved mental health support and awareness around abusive relationships.

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Nobody said It was tiktok and nobody said they were raped.

Alicegoth22

The trio stole 6lbs of cocaine from the cartel...


Do with that what you will.

[deleted]

Prolly the people w the video don t bother to come here but leaving this just in case

Accomplished_Bath281

Instagram really let people watch this LIVE?? Jeez

Shesnotparisian

Ambitious-Stick-2954

maybe hanging out with violent drug dealers wasn't a good idea.

heyman0

Has nobody learned about not taking notes on a criminal conspiracy?

Jinshu_Daishi

Was it recorded and did they capture the people responsible ?

Itachiclones1

Absolutely disgusting. Cartels should be treated like terrorist networks and taken out with the full might of the armed forces, with extreme prejudice. The whole of Latin America is inundated with these psychopathic groups.

Sugreev2001

I wouldn’t even affiliate cartels, never the less steal drugs from them…

NoKaryote

The article contradicts the title. It was an Instagram live stream not TikTok...not that it changes the horrifying nature of the crimes at all.

Ecstatic-Run-9767

They should arrest everyone who watched it and throw them in prison until they find out which ones did our of 45. 

dopeless42day

Absolutely terrifying. I can’t imagine the torture of all that. I hope they find the perpetrators, those poor girls.

amilie15

One of the victims was only 15, just a kid. This is so terrible. I will never understand how people can be so cruel.

Glass-Moose

househubbz

This is horrifying! Someone needs to hold these companies liable for dangerous/lethal behavior. These people should NEVER have a platform.

Social media was the biggest mistake...prove me wrong.

My God how depraved.

BabyBlueAllStar72

Confirming the horror crimes were filmed and transmitted live online, Buenos Aires’ security minister Javier Alonso said: “It was for a closed group of around 45 people. That’s the information we have obtained so far from the investigation.

“It is relevant to the motive for the murders, which is that the leader of the gang is saying: ‘This is what happens to you if you steal drugs from me.’”

This is horrific.

essemh

That is diabolical levels of insanity and cruelty

dtaromei

how is this or anything like this even allowed on stream and social media? how is it allowed, *period*?

metalnxrd

This coverage really does not convey the Jerry Springer depravity of it all. This was Brenay's own husband's cousin. She was living in their house with their kids.

A dozen or more people from her following took Akira's side and traveled to NC to support her in person at the trial and covered it all daily on TikTok.

Brenay, well paid from lucrative full time TikTok, did not even come to trial with an attorney.

Six states have this "Alienation of Affection" law. Hawaii, North Carolina, Mississippi, New Mexico, South Dakota, and Utah

epidemicsaints

I would pay 1.75 million to never hear about another influencer again

Swordf1sh_

“The jury found Kennard liable for criminal conversation and alienation of affection.

North Carolina’s alienation of affection law allows a spouse to sue the person they blame for an affair that ends a marriage. North Carolina is one of the few states that allows jilted spouses to sue someone for interfering in their marriage.”

“Currently, the tort of alienation of affection is available in six states, including: Hawaii,Mississippi, New Mexico, North Carolina, South Dakota, and Utah”

AlizarinQ

wtf? She had an affair with her manager and has to pay $1.75 mil for it? That’s ridiculous lol

&gt;North Carolina’s alienation of affection law allows a spouse to sue the person they blame for an affair that ends a marriage. North Carolina is one of the few states that allows jilted spouses to sue someone for interfering in their marriage.

How is the HUSBAND not the one liable. He’s the one who made vows, not his employee.

A1sauc3d

Is anyone else law having a problem with safari loading the linked articles? I keep getting a page not found error.

_pinklemonade_

Frankly more surprised to learn that you're allowed to sue someone for "seducing your spouse" and that you can actually get a judgment in your favor somewhere in the US?

"My poor Spouse is just a feeble-minded little child with no agency your honor it was this Godless harlot that led them astray, give me 2 million of their dollars". 

Seriously who knew homewrecking had serious legal repercussions (not a crime as pointed out below) in places in the US?

BeatTheDeadMal

Jean Claude van Damme got similarly sued by the former husband of the woman Jean Claude later married.

Whoozit450

Man I had a friend in NC that got divorced and it was incredibly hard for her to change her name back to her maiden name. Apparently she should have sued instead?

Expensive-Fennel-163

20k on lawyer would have prevented this who goes to court looking at a million dollar judgment with no lawyer 

nonlethaldosage

It's wild that this is even a law in a handful of states. The whole situation is a complete mess, from the family betrayal to the influencer's total lack of regard for the process. Honestly, this entire saga feels like it was engineered for maximum TikTok engagement.

Ill_Independence3057

All the fish in the sea and they had to choose one that's married.

asilee

If I was those kids I’d want to live with another family member and change my name

Araleina

QuantumBobb

Yo this ain’t entertaining, this is disgusting. Imagine being the kids in the situation with your name, image, likeness is blasted all over the internet. No privacy. Get rid of TikTok and go back to Vine. If any of you are involved with following these types of people on TikTok, maybe you should reconsider how to spend your time.

iFEELsoGREAT

So people can just sue affair partners for their spouse’s cheating? If anything they should be suing the husband for cheating in the first place.

sithmaster297

OK, I'm familiar with alienation of affection lawsuits - but wth is 'criminal conversation?'

thatcantb

Damn I wish this was available in Maryland. Some girls pose as your friend just to take your man. And of course some guys are looking for it. My pretend “friend” pursued my ex husband relentlessly, we were young he took the bait then destroyed our entire lives by being a drunk with her and spending my money on alcohol before I could take my half out of the account. I was in Europe when he was caught cheating. Missed my mortgage payment and made my life a living hell for a year until we finally got divorced. I so wish I could sue them both for my PTSD and the beginning of anxiety attacks for the rest of my life.

NewDistribution8509

In my generation we went from soap operas to reality tv to tiktok bs... People need better hobbies and role models 🤦‍♂️

nerdshowandtell

mr_mcpoogrundle

And we continue to make shitty and stupid people famous

bblaine223

This is why we're never going to have a Star Trek future and are instead stuck in Idiocracy.

CyberDonSystems

&gt;North Carolina’s alienation of affection law allows a spouse to sue the person they blame for an affair that ends a marriage. 

Woman might be an asshole but that law is fucking insane. How is the blame not on the husband?

dicksanddixanddixon

When I read the words Tik Tok and Influencer, my sympathy evaporates.

WindTreeRock

...What's the feeling of never having heard of an "influencer"?

425565

North Carolina is a weird state. I think it’s the only one of a handful of states that has that alienation of affection tort

OMITB77

Does this only work if someone “steals” your spouse? Like lets say my spouse starts cheating on me but she doesnt leave me for the other guy but i end the marriage and she stays single. Does the law still apply?

TellEmWhoUCame2See

Brenay also has a twin sister that is rumored to have slept with Tim too. *Allegedly* Karrin slept with Tim first (the Tik Tok detectives swear that Karrin’s baby is Tim’s, I don’t think that’s necessarily true). The only reason Karrin isn’t under the same scrutiny as her sister is because she had enough sense to stfu and ignore the drama. If you go on her page she’s going to the gym and doing wig installs, she *very rarely* discusses anything about her sister. Brenay didn’t know when to stfu and that’s why she gotta pay Akira 1.75 Mil

nan_sheri

As predicted, Sammi’s comments are active again so she will unfortunately be back posting on TikTok soon. Her dependency and desperation for online attention is alarming especially for a “professional” that “helps” others with coping strategies. It’s evident that she is not even equipped with strategies herself. When you’re that unwell mentally, you should not have access to clients or the public. Sammi was the same in school, constantly attention seeking by any means and without any regard to others.

Ruley-Cobbler9087

It has to be said that “Kind Berry” IS Sammi 🤣 all her comments are verbatim what Sammi bitches on her tiktok. Ironic that this username was quite exactly the same time she was on a trip? 😂 Don’t even bother engaging folks, she is off the rails 

Sammi you’re not foolin anyone girl. Maybe get off Reddit, Ozempic, and fix that busted hairline 👋

MonitorOverall3695

It was posted and deleted here but I saw that she made a post that had clients names visible. I’m actually glad it was deleted here for the sake of her clients

Worried-Hat-2067

We need to keep calling out this gross behavior for all unethical therapists!

Plenty_Shake_5010

Look ik the Palestinian and israel conflict is complicated and i dont have the most knowledge on it but for sammi to say ‘oh my god shut the fck up’ when someone brings up the genocide of Palestinian lives in her live when she was talking about it…honestly i have no sympathy for this woman anymore. Shes insane and deserves every ounce of hate she gets. Imagine telling someone to shut the fck up about ppl dying. Shes a vile person through and through. Yuck. I cant imagine having a therapist like this. Zero emotional intelligence, awareness, or care 🤢 i hope more and more ppl blacklist her

Various-Brush6776

Countdown until the video from @dietculturedropout gets deleted? You can censor your page but you can’t be upset if your “trolls” find another outlet. When you have a large following that you monetize you basically opened yourself up to this. And clearly you called it that someone would call you out on this video. Glad you made a “fat investment” in Reddit hope that goes well. I get more out of the solidarity of knowing that I am not the only one who has had negative experiences with your content. By your logic, we can all invest in Reddit and keep “dragging” you to make money, could be a win win. Do better.

r/earlofsandwich Did you notice Sammi left TT?!? of course because another girl came forward.

EnvironmentalSinger1

Honestly, it would be in her best interest to stay off social media for good and go back to being a chef or whatever she was before. The fact that she considers Ed to be her speciality is a damn joke. Not only is her experience lacking due to her age, she shouldn’t be in this field causing more harm

Responsible_Fix_7324

Sammi is on live talking about how her legal team goes to TikTok and asks for the person information and if TikTok doesn’t give it to them then they threaten TikTok that they are going to sue for defamation. It’s not defamation if it’s true. Sammi wake up you aren’t as popular as you think, anyone can search your username and can see claims that past clients have against her.

The reason why almost every therapist is giving conflicting advice is because they only want to "stand out" and get views. simple. Even if at the bottom they wanna help out. This happens in every niche, especially the fitness community. You'd find someone say one thing, and then someone else debunks that and says something totally different, and then someone else exaggerates what they're tryna say, all to get views. If you're in recovery and working with a therapist and feel like they're helping you out, just stick with them and try to not engage with that content as much because it can mess up with your recovery, and 2- the more you watch it and interact with the vids, the more tiktok will push them in your face. I wish you well!

MainEventJeyUso

In my life I would have ever look for healthcare professional help from Tik Tok.

AUTOMATED_RUNNER

Also, what happens when your client is watching your content? Are there no rules for this? I know there are some who asks their clients to block them but how can you guarantee that.

EarlOfSandwich23

She is beyond awful. Her content is so demotivating and demoralizing, she sounds so condescending all the time. It also seems as though she only cares about money, hence her making a “merch” line (like seriously, who in their right mind would buy merch from a therapist…). I’ve heard that multiple of her past clients have reported her for abuse, it blew up over the summer

Just saw that she sells clothing apparel on her page. I’m really not sure this person should be anyone’s therapist.

This account kept coming up on my FYP and felt confusing and unsettling. Makes sense now. I commented on a post (thought my comment was innocuous) but was blocked soon after. Probably a good thing for me honestly. I’m not sure therapists should try to be influencers and push sponsored content.

It pains me to say this but I actually appreciate that her behavior is being called out here because she deletes comments and blocks anyone who challenges her. I hope potential clients are at least aware of her practices before choosing to work with her. Also disheartened by other therapists on tik tok who defend her (e.g., deconstructing.therapist). When will there be protection for clients who should not be exposed to an unhealthy social media presence by their therapist

I think it’s wild that she doesn’t take insurance and charges people a MINIMUM of $250. That’s insane. My doctorate level therapist charges $175 AND takes insurance, even if they are a pain in the ass.

kmjabs

This makes me so sad. Can someone please stand up and help vulnerable populations who don’t deserve to have to compartmentalize their care with their clinician’s social media presence and revenue goals.

If i saw my therapist on TT doing GRWM, showering, doing outfit of the day, all while being a raging bitch and narcissist, I'd fire her that day. Sammi is a stuck up brat and if you've noticed, has zero friends. That should speak volumes.

Kind-berry is Sammi, no doubt. Get a life and new profession, you’re a terrible therapist

Did anyone catch her live today where she almost lost it on someone "bullying" her? They simply asked why a new iPad is a tax write off after she said it was for tiktok streaming. I thought she was going to cry 😂

Does anyone else find it ironic that Samm—

—erm, oh right, “Kind Berry”

is back on this thread during the time that TikTok is pushing notifications that @thedietculturedropout is reuploading videos?

So much for that social media break..

One thing that gives me peace, a friend in the industry let me know that a documentary on therapy practices is in production and one piece focuses on exactly this. Really hope a result of this is further scrutiny. I don’t care much about specific profiles but would hope those with a large public following are picked up.

Direct_Branch_5128

Found an excuse to end the “social media break”

SF needs to be less concerned about people not liking her “content” and be more concerned about the client list screenshotted from one of her TT that is CIRCULATING the fucking internet. not just on Reddit.

She brought up that she goes to extreme lengths to “protect client privacy”…bullshit. If that was true, and she knew there was a chance that clients information have ALREADY been exposed- she would have IMMEDIATELY contacted all her clients and notified them of the potential risk. Instead she implores people to message her privately…so she can control the narrative and cover her own ass.

SF is in for a world of consequences..this is so so so bad

It's interesting that I ended up here after searching about this therapist after being blocked. I am highly suspicious of anyone who thinks it's weird to share a baby's birthweight as if that is not a literal indicator of health in a world where infant and maternal health is not guaranteed. As an ED therapist, she just made one of the best celebrations of weight toxic and she likely blocked me because I called her out on it. The rest of this thread is exhausting though...

Hello-Goodbye-1017

Looks like she finally has to face the consequences of her actions. Her license has been reprimanded for three years with many stipulations due to her conduct on social media and inappropriate relationships with past clients. Hopefully this limits her harm to the vulnerable people she preys on. 

https://www.elicense.ct.gov/lookup/ViewPublicLookupDocument.aspx?DocumentIdnt=7928426&amp;GUID=0CE01C94-F1C3-4858-AF1C-E7EC00EB0072

Diligent_Ground_1078

Sammi is not just a therapist she is also a human. Therapists are human and don’t have to be professional 24/7. Personally her content has been really helpful for me. People need to stop holding therapists to this high standard of being professional at all times when being a therapist is JUST their job nothing else really. If you don’t like someone block them or scroll past them instead of making it a big deal and trying to hurt them in any way. I also seen someone say how she doesn’t take insurance and charges, but if you would watch you would learn she offers sliding scales and there are actually a lot of therapists who don’t take insurance and instead offer a sliding scale or payment plans. Lastly if you are in ED recovery it’s actually recommended not to be on social media. Therapists have the same rights as any human and I’ve never seen content from Sammi that was unethical, and she had the right to delete comments that she sees as hate or delete ones that she thinks break her personal boundaries or affect her mental health because she is human like every other person here.

Is a GRWM or “fit check” just body checking

Are there any updates from the person who posted on Reddit that they were a current client of Sammi’s and was considering dropping her? 

Immediately after the Reddit post, Sammi trashed the OP in a live saying they weren’t a real person but someone jealous of her TikTok following.

Then recently Sammi posted a video talking about being “ghosted” by a client. and a few more days later, she is off social media. The timing of all these pieces are interesting.

@kind-berry / Sammi: 

It’s actually impressive the amount of words you’re able to use to say absolutely nothing. Nothing of value, logic, or of sound mind.

Good try though! Time to excuse yourself, so the grown ups can keep talking 👋

Sammi jumped on Brenna's live last night. She dominated the conversation. Kept bringing up something that happened in her live. My God it was awful. She wasn't even listening to Brenna and made it all about her. She's disgusting.

Anyone know the therapist she was doing the live with the other day?

it’s really hard because you put so much into therapy and you trust that your therapist is truly there to help and support you especially when you are so young (in my case) and vulnerable and you’re in a place mentally where you need someone to be there for you and help you learn how to go through recovery. but instead you leave feeling manipulated in so many ways and even more broken in ways and now you’re trying to undo the things that you’ve learned that are maladaptive. and try to forget all the of ed thoughts that were shown to you through eating disorder therapy. it’s messed up in so many ways. and it’s harder to learn that you’re not the only one who has had this kind of experience. my heart goes out to everyone who has experienced anything like this.

Fantastic_Alarm_2817

KindBerry seems to have left the building

Any thoughts on recent Sammi Farber TT content?

EffectiveCrab3902

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Major-Bandicoot-4329

Having an older disabled sibling that I've been expected to care for since that age, I can understand the helplessness, rage, and sadness the little sister felt. The disabled sister was the victim, 100%. I just know there's more to this case than little sister just decided to off her older sister. I wonder if the parents pushed the responsibility of the disabled sister onto the younger able bodied sister.

The case hasn't gone to court yet. The killer is only 14 and called the police on herself so I guess she is undergoing a lot of mental health evaluations

Lucky-Worth

I went to the same school as her. When I was there she was in elementary and middle school so I never really knew her, but it’s strange to think I spent years in the same building as her. The year she murdered her sister she was also the president of the freshman class. Very odd and sad case. There will be an update once it goes to court.

whatitdowhatitbee

Just curious what this girls home life was like, it could of contributed to her actions. Doesn’t justify them though but could give more of an understanding.

LadyLuger

We really need a robust care system for the disabled in this world.

Status_Confidence_26

How sad for everyone involved.. you can tell she has mental issues.. I feel so sorry for her sister that was stabbed.

Natural-Candy7149

Maurice Harrison, known as Girlalala, a 21-year-old transgender TikTok influencer, was fatally shot in Florida. Authorities arrested Shanoyd Whyte Jr. on murder charges following a physical altercation.

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